Everybody poops, as much as women or celebrities or influencers may not want you to see it or know it, everyone has baggage. They all wipe their own bums and they all poo or else they die . Why is this important? Well, because we like to idolize doctors, politicians, sometimes parents or children, or religious figureheads, gurus, etc and it’s comforting to know that they all got their own poop to deal with too. I have had the pleasure of meeting so many of my role models and people I put up on a pedestal before. What I have learned is that everyone has their own problems. Some have harder problems than others.
BUT those who seemingly “have it all together” usually don’t. The ones who do the best are the ones who can manage problems well, and return back to a collected state of calm/poise faster than others. “More money, more problems” is all true. “No money, no problems” is also very true. The truth though is you have NO IDEA how wealthy someone is, and they often have debt or assets that you likely will never know about. The people of Uber wealth and everyone else too seem to have issues.
I get the pleasure of learning the inner lives of many people because of its relevance to their health issues. What I have learned is that none of us can avoid pain and suffering. What we can learn is perspective, and how to manage it gracefully. We can learn from the poop that happens to us, and we can grow from it. We can do our best to avoid stress, but it always comes around in the end.
I look for people to associate with who are open, honest, vulnerable and modest. People who seek out the truth even when society is suppressing it. People whose values and convictions are strong.
People whose mental fortitude is excellent, People who are growth oriented and not only admit their mistakes but actively work on their weaknesses, happily. These are the true role models. The quiet ones. The gentle ones. The ones whose actions speak so their words don’t have to. These people are my favorites. And they still poop .