Being a strong man, includes being kind. There is nothing weak about kindness and compassion. There is nothing weak about looking out for others. There is nothing weak about being honorable.
You are not a sucker to have integrity and to treat others with respect. Every respect you have, you earned it. There is no respect in a vacuum. So always check disrespect.
You don’t do what women want. You don’t do what children want. You do what is in the best interest of your relationship and family and that includes saving women and children from themselves. Performativeness is not performance. Let the result justify your decisions. Date women with values and raise children with values. Excess freedom is toxic. Do not allow women and children under your authority feel an absence of authority. It is self destructive.
Society is in your hands. Live with honour and speak the truth. People will talk anyway, so why not just speak the truth to conviction? Strive in your masculinity and let your decisions and action be for the greater good of society.
It is not in women’s place to tell you how to be a man. They only create effeminates they themselves neither love nor respect. There is no such thing as toxic masculinity. There is masculinity and there is toxicity. Anyone can be toxic. Avoid toxicity and strive in your masculinity.
You have no business with virtue signalling. People who virtue signal have no virtue. They only posture and anyone can see through the smokescreen. Just be good, virtuous and masculine. You don’t need to posture.
Allow yourself to be loved too. “Happy Wife, Happy life” has never created a happy home. You only transfer the truth of your burden to your friends. Try to be happy too because your state of mind affects everyone under your protection. Date people with values and lead with love.
Love can be tough too so learn to take a stand. Taking a stand is not toxicity, it is leadership. You are a man. Try to live long. Take care of yourself. Men are dying too early. You should try to see your grandkids grow up at least.
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