The question hits me like hell : Why do the ones you adore and the ones who appreciate you all of a sudden ignore you, like you don’t matter anymore?
What happened suddenly was that there was no other option but to ignore? People tell different stories, and like every other story, it has its own reasons that make them act in that way.
The first one is that you hurt them in a way that they could never imagine, breaking their hearts and their trust. They had enough and tried enough while communicating with you or having a conversation with you, but since you don’t hold accountability for any of your actions, they had no other choice but to ignore you and live their lives peacefully.
The next reason might be that you are a good person and they know it, but you are not the one they want to have in their life. As harsh as it sounds to hear that, sometimes people ignore you because they don’t know what to do with you. They even think that they don’t deserve you, and don’t you try to prove your worth to them.
Sometimes people are confused with themselves, and you are not the one who can help them fix that. If someone ignores you, even after you have the purest intention for them, you are not losing anything, but they are losing everything.
And the last reason might be that maybe you outgrew them, or they outgrew you. As short as it is, the deeper it has its meaning. Sometimes people don’t know how to communicate this, which can hurt your feelings, so they choose to ignore you.
But I want to tell you one thing, If somebody is ignoring you or choosing to avoid you, even after bringing things up again and again, do you think you deserve it?
No matter how hard the situations are for them, if instead of communicating or talking it out, they choose to ignore you, then trust me, they are quite aware of the hurt you are going to get after that, so you know what the answer to that will be, because, The heart knows, but it pretends.
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